So idk what to do.. I like this guy and he smokes but I’m ok with it as long as he wouldn’t make me and he said he never would. But my friends know him better than I do and they say he would and he treats me so sweetly and I can tell he really does like me cuz he gets nervous talking to me but everyone tells me about how he use to be sexual towards other girls but he hasn’t been like that to me.. I want to think he’s different toward me but people say he won’t be but they don’t know.. I guess..
Well he seems like a good guy. If he doesn’t pressure you into ANYTHING you don’t want to do, then that’s good. You shouldn’t worry about it too much. Try not to go based on what OTHER people say. Because they can be rumors, they can exaggerate or they want to try to sabotage what you guys have. There are so many different factors to it but if he’s not doing any of the things people are telling you he does, then don’t listen to them. If he shows signs that he does, then just be careful. All I’m saying is, if you like him and he likes you and he respects you the way he’s supposed to then you don’t have to worry about anything.