I’m really awkward with guys and I haven’t done anything with a guy, never had my first kiss, never even held hands with a boy. It’s not that I’m afraid to do anything with a guy but it makes me feel weird bc most people in my grade have already done so much. I just can’t see guys liking me that type of way.. I don’t know what to do and every time a boy ends up liking me i blow it bc I don’t know what to do.. and I feel like such a loser.. //:
You shouldn’t feel like a loser. You are 1000% awesome and it’s okay to be a little scared of boys. But they don’t bite (unless you’re into that sorta thing)
ANYWAYYY, what I’m saying is, there are going to be boys in the future that will definitely like you if you just be confident in yourself. Boys like girls who don’t sweat the small stuff like trying to look pretty all the time or who’s wearing what. All they care about in a girl is “can i hang with her without drama?” “does she like all the nerdy things i like?” and “how much can she eat in one sitting so i don’t feel like a fatass?”
If you’re confident in yourself and you stop worrying about the “relationship quotas”, boys will notice you and you’ll be more than happy.