ok :) uh… so I’m 17 right, and all my friends either have bf’s they’re sexually active with or have done things with guys. I kinda feel like a loser because I haven’t gone all the way, I’m waiting for someone I really like (it seems to be taking forever). But all my friends seem so experienced and I’m not… and I’m going on 18. Idk I just feel like I can’t relate at all.
Don’t think like that! ![]()
Loads of people haven’t done that and they’re way older. It’s all about finding the right person. You don’t need to rush into anything. You don’t need to hop on the bandwagon just cause everyone else has. Go at your own pace. You WILL find the RIGHT person and you will NOT regret it. It’s okay. I’m almost 17 and I haven’t given myself up yet. Just be patient. You’ll be alright without it for now. Just wait for the right person. He will come, I promise. ![]()

